Resolving Relationship Issues
by Anita Das
Client Case 1:
About the client
Cecelia (name changed) is in her early 30s and is a recruitment consultant who wanted to overcome her fear of rejection in relationships. She had experienced being bullied at school; stalked in her younger years and being rejected in previous relationships. She had undergone counselling for anxiety and feeling overwhelmed. She had issues with not trusting or believing things will work out for the best as well as self sabotage and self destructive patterns of behaviour.
The strongest emotion associated with the rejection was fear which she experienced daily and kept her awake at night and lasted for a few hours. She also experienced feelings of panic, being overwhelmed, anxious and loneliness but fear was the strongest emotion. Physical sensations associated with this emotion included sweaty palms, her heart racing, slight pain in her rib and a dry throat.
As fear was the strongest and most consistent emotion connected with the issue, she then regressed to the source of it experiencing significant events in her past and current life where this emotion occurred. The significant events included rape, sexual abuse and being rejected by the community in a past life and similar events in her current life. Transformation techniques were used which included reframing and inner child transformation techniques to heal the inner child traumatic events. There was also dialogue with each of those whom had caused her harm which led to resolution, forgiveness and understanding. During integration, the traumatic events were transformed and the absorption of positive qualities enabled a different empowering scene. The unhealthy cords between her prior partners were removed, her energy reclaimed and sealed to enable complete integration.
In the future the client saw herself with strong, clear boundaries and was focused on her own wellbeing and making her own choices feeling uplifted and empowered. One year forward, she saw herself as a role model and was amazed at how she had achieved this. She no longer felt alone as she loves herself and being in her own company. She treats herself well and pampers herself. A few years on, she is successful in love, relationships, career, felt fulfilled, positive, things were happening not to her but for her and she had family around her and felt whole, happy and fulfilled. She anchored and breathed in all the positive feelings throughout her energy field making her feel vibrant and empowered.
Change of symptoms
Following the initial regression session, Cecelia’s symptoms disappeared. She felt much more at ease with her current situation, knowing that she can handle whatever happens to her. She felt increased security in relationships and felt anchored moving in a direction without destructive patterns.
After the subsequent regression session, she felt at peace and a great sense of inner calm.
Her new thoughts were ‘‘I will be fine, things are working in my favour. The universe is working as it's meant to. I am at the right place at the right time. What's meant to be will be. I must surrender to my highest good.’ She no longer had feelings of fear, panic and could sleep peacefully through the night.
Client testimony ‘I had a few regression sessions with Anita and she was so accommodating, so much so that she came to my home which was quite a distance from her own. From the moment we were in touch Anita was a total professional who put me at ease with her naturally calming energy and warm-hearted nature. I felt completely safe in her presence. I had suffered with fear and blocked emotional childhood trauma which had crippled me in my everyday life. After just one session I felt lighter, less fearful and more together than before! It was truly miraculous! I would have no hesitation in recommending Anita and her services.’
Client Case 2:
About the client
Jessica (name changed) is in her mid 50s and is a community support worker who wanted to overcome her anger when looking back on childhood. The physical sensation associated with this strongest emotion of anger was tension in her stomach and feeling nauseous.
As anger was the strongest and most consistent emotion connected with the issue, the client then regressed to the source
of it experiencing significant events in her current life where this emotion occurred. She regressed to her childhood when she had been raped and experienced a shutdown where extensive body therapy was used to transform the body memory and to release the trapped energy. There was much catharsis.
Inner child transformation techniques were used to heal the inner child traumatic events. The client became aware of what she understood to be true as a child and the feelings and beliefs generated in her at that time. The Adult Self met and connected with the younger Child Self and provided protection, comfort and love and the qualities that she needed including protection, being able to express freely, love and strength. She also absorbed rainbow crystals and wore a multi-coloured cloak representing all the qualities that she would ever need and could call upon at any time. During integration, the traumatic events were transformed and the absorption of the positive qualities enabled a different empowering scene.
The client saw the pattern between her past and current life as she had been a carer in both lives. She saw that in the future there was a change in direction and saw a straight path ahead of her. She saw that she would no longer be living in London and would be working for herself, strong, having claimed her power and able to speak freely and easily.
The unhealthy cords between her prior partners were removed and sealed to enable complete integration. In the future, the client saw herself happy and free, positive and empowered. She was standing stronger, more positive, upright and felt good in herself. Going further forward, she saw that her life is good and that she is no longer carrying a burden. She said that her anger has been replaced with happiness. She said everything is good and that she has a different job and her relationships with others are all really good and strong. She is at peace with herself and those around her. She feels loved and is loved and accepted. Energy healing was given to settle her energies.
Change of symptoms
After the regression session, her symptoms disappeared in that she no longer felt nauseous or any tension in her stomach and no longer felt any anger.
Client testimony ‘I felt that visiting the past life gave me the feeling of being free and not trapped and I have now brought that feeling into my life from the regression. I am amazed at how I had found forgiveness and resolution in so many of my past relationships. Thank you so much for your support and guidance with these sessions. It has made a huge difference. I was really pleased with the outcome. You were both very personal and professional’.
Client Case 3:
About the client
Katherine (name changed) is in her late 40s and is a therapist who wanted to overcome her mistrust in men and be in a loving, committed long term relationship with complete trust. She grew up in a volatile environment, her father was abusive to her mum, always living in a state of fight or flight situation and was never able to really feel safe and secure.
The strongest emotion identified with the issue was sadness and an associated thought was ‘I have sabotaged myself’ and a physical sensation was a tingle on the left side of the head.
Prior to the regression, it was necessary to remove intrusive energies which were blocking her from fully going into the regression. As sadness was the strongest and most consistent emotion connected with the issue, the client then regressed to the source of it experiencing significant events including sexual abuse and rape in her past and current life where this emotion occurred.
During the transformation she has dialogue with her past life husband and forgiveness and understanding is reached. During transformation, all the new qualities, knowledge and wisdom were brought in and the experience was different as it had been reframed. She had no anger and was happy, brighter, the house was brighter and he was smiling at her and looking at her with love.
The client also went to current life events where she had felt the same emotion and had the same thoughts. Current life transformation techniques were also used where forgiveness and understanding was reached through dialogue with her partners from the current life. Her spirit guide also imparted guidance and wisdom. There was removal of unhealthy cords with her prior partners where this energy had been holding her back.
During the integration, she experienced a positive past life to get a glimpse of where she had experienced being in a loving,
committed, long term relationship based on trust. She was standing in a large mansion at the foot of a large spiral staircase and her husband was looking at her from the stairs of the staircase smiling at her with his eyes full of love. She felt happy, content and safe. She knew that he loved her and she loved him. He was her soulmate. She then anchored and breathed in all the positive qualities she felt and knew that she can call on those feelings again at any time. She breathed in the feelings of being loved in a relationship based on trust through her aura, energy field, cells and throughout her energy system. Energy healing was given to settle her energies.
Change of symptoms
Following the regression session, her symptoms disappeared. She no longer feels the sadness. She feels a relief and a weight has been lifted much more at peace. She feels a sense of acceptance and a deep feeling of wanting to move forward now. She feels that she has experienced a deep energy shift. She has no more physical sensations.
Client testimony ‘It was so wonderful to end on a positive note and it felt so amazing! It was a truly transformative session!’